I keep thinking of how little I knew when I first had a child and how much more I know now. Some of my knowledge is worthless. Actually, most of it is worthless but some might be useful for parents.

So, here it is, my first piece of advice:

I  like peeking in on my old employer and seeing their progress in the hopes that someday they will have enough money to pay my back pay. Today, I noticed that their web site had a comparison matrix pdf.  It thought that it would be really handy to both know what other products are available [...]

You were always the one to find the right words. I miss you and I’m thinking of you. Unbearably sad.